Dear Jenny:

I typically don’t presume to know what someone is going through and insert my two cents, but I am compelled to write this and it is coming from a place of compassion and empathy. I understand and admire your commitment to your vows, but for your own sanity and emotional well-being, please cut your losses from this marriage and run for the exit.

From today’s press conference with your husband, South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford:

During an emotional interview at his Statehouse office with The Associated Press on Tuesday, Sanford said Chapur is his soul mate but he’s trying to fall back in love with his wife.

This is so sad. It must be wrenching for you to hear because it cut right through me and I don’t know either of you. I can’t imagine going through it publicly.

Please set the divorce in motion so that you and your children can begin healing and living. I am sending good thoughts your way.