Two days ago I wrote about not having Internet at home at the moment and how disconcerting it is. Yet I heard the big message: Relax when you’re home.

But now I think the message is even bigger than that.

Relax. Don’t always be so intense and driven.

Relax. Don’t feel like you have to announce to prospective dates, employers, clients that you are available and interested. Let them inquire once in a while.

Relax. It’s a confident thing to do.

Relax. It’s a healthy thing to do.

Relax. You’re doing great at life.


Relax …