Conscious diversion

Ah, the level of discourse just gets better and better as we near Election Day, doesn’t it? Sometimes it takes a concerted effort to put our focus on what’s important in our relationships at times like this, whether in social media or in our live...

Iyanla in action

I’ve seen Iyanla Vanzant in person twice and now a number of times on television. The woman is a force and has overcome tragedy and costly mistakes in her life. So inspiring. Her new show on OWN, Iyanla, Fix My Life, has begun and here’s what impressed me...

Astonished

Back when Smith Magazine made Six-Word Memoirs all the rage, my inner wordsmith went into action. But it was my now departed friend Kevin who dashed off mine without a thought: Zen chick with a Jersey edge. I adore that. Today, a bit anxious about a few things, I took...

What are you wearing?

Way back in the day when I was a sports writer, I belonged to the Association for Women in Sports Media. The annual conference was wonderfully enriching every year and one of the best parts was the crew I got to hang with. A fashion spread in New York magazine last...

An open letter to our military

I spent a good deal of yesterday immersed in reminders of September 11, 2001. It was self-inflicted. Each year I either abstain or answer an emotional need to relive some of it. Sometimes it feels good to allow myself to feel until it almost sears my insides....

The right thing

I found a wallet at the beach last week. Such a simple thing and yet it prompted a flood of thoughts and memories which led me to this — I’ve had a major shift in my thinking since September 11, 2001. Today’s Game Plan: A Lost Wallet and Its...